Day 37 of 40 - Vivian
Good day everyone. My name is Vivian. I work with Hands at Work, and I serve at Lagos Service Centre [Nigeria]. I would like you to please pray with us today. Please pray for our Youth Boys in Amakoko Care Point, in Ilaje community.
One thing we’ve observed in the community is that the men don’t take care of their wives. The culture encourages a man to marry as many wives as possible and to get as many children as possible A man can have up to four wives, can have up to six wives, and he can get like eight children, 10 children, and even more than. But he will not take care of the wife. He will not take care of the children.
He will not support the wife. He will not support the children. The responsibility of feeding the children, the responsibility of buying clothes for the children. The responsibility of treating the children when they are sick, the responsibility of even providing shelter is mostly on the woman.
While the youngest child of the house is still crawling, the woman is pregnant again with another child, the culture forces the children into child labour. Sometimes children are sent to go and work in order to take care of themself and also the family.
Sometimes children are not allowed to go to school. They are forced to stay at home in order to take care of the younger ones while their mom will go and sell fish in order to be able to provide food for the family.
Please pray for our youth boys that even as we’re raising them in the Care Point, even as we’re sharing the word of God with them and showing them the way that the Holy Spirit will minister into their hearts and that the Holy Spirit will open their eyes to see the culture for what it is, that the culture is a culture that endangers the lives of women and children.
Please, let us pray for our youth boys that our youth boys will not follow in the steps of their fathers - their fathers, their brothers, their uncles - this is a culture they have known since they have been born. Let’s pray for our youth boys that they’ll not follow in the footsteps of their parents. That the Lord will deliver them from that evil mentality of having many children and many wives that you cannot care for.
Let’s pray that our youth boys will not be influenced by this evil culture, but rather they, themselves, will begin to influence the community positively. Please let’s pray our youths will know the truth and that the truth, which is the word of God, will set them free from this evil culture and this evil mentality.
Please pray for our youth boys that when it’s time for them to settle down, they will take one wife and they will only bear children that they can care for, and that the change will begin with them. Thank you very much.
Has your mom or dad ever asked you, “If your friend jumped off a bridge, would you also do it?” Do you ever feel like it is easier to go along with what everyone else is doing, even if you know it isn’t right?